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Introduction:
Why won't a woman from the Balkans allow police to help her in a domestic
violence situation? Indira Kajosevic of the Reconciliation and Culture Cooperative Network
in New York City suggests that to understand this one must look to issues of identity and
culture. She recommends taking a culturally sensitive approach to the issues
faced by those from the Balkans and now living in New York City.
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Identity and Cultural Sensitivity
Indira Kajosevic
Co-director and Project Coordinator of the Reconciliation and Culture Cooperative Network, Inc., New York
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A: One of the things that I
find in my work is that members of the community, especially the community
leaders, become so partial. We are still very small for let's say policy makers
here, to understand that there is a particularity of this culture. For instance,
the policemen, had no idea that when they were going to a battered woman's
house, that she's not going to invite them in. For one, she does not trust the
police. Secondly, there were people in uniforms, who were taking them out of
their homes back in Bosnia, and they come from the same memory here, so they are
not going to trust them. Thirdly, they don't understand the rules and
procedures, when and how to do them. Fourthly, the community is going to
ostracize them if her husband is going to be sent back because of the violence
that she has experienced, because domestic violence is perceived as something
normal, and it happens. We all of course know that once there is greater
violence in society, there is greater violence in the home. There are all these
frustrated people who don't know what to do with themselves, and fight all the
time. Beating up children is a normal part of the culture. It's ok. So why do
Americans make such a big deal out of disciplining your children?
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If you went to a
high school in the Bronx and there were problems of Albanian kids in the tight
group and they had an arranged fight with the best or biggest local gang,
someone might say well this is what is traditionally happening in this area in
the Bronx. Italians fought Irish and Irish fought Latinos. What they fought
about was not some disagreements, but whether Albanian kids would be allowed to
wear black and red because these were the colors of the Bloods, a Latino gang in
that area. They have this fight on the premises of an educational institution in
NYC and they have an excellent conflict resolution program, but it's not working
because those kids are not coming to the CR programs so you do have to take a
culturally sensitive approach and understand why these kids wear black and red.
If you know this is a gang, why the hell do you want to wear these colors? Those
are the colors of their national flag and the Albanian kids would never give it
up, because it was so hard for them to maintain it under the repressive Kosovo,
and they come all the way to America to have a gang do it as well; of course
they're going to fight.
Q: Land of freedom, land they still can't have their flag.
A: Right, because of all the social environments and the circumstances they
live in. Having an active presence is the most important part for our work,
that's my advice.
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